Sexuality and the Future of the Church

There was a palpable sense of a holy ground moment in the room. Through tears my friend brought his story of sexual sin before some close brothers in Christ. Except for the moment he’d confessed to his wife, it was probably the most vulnerable he’d ever been. Though the group of young men responded with grace and love, the topic of sexuality was never mentioned again. A lone voice crying out for companionship in the toughest struggle of his life.

Sweet young women, many of them, have sat across from me and shared how porn or erotica entered their lives during […]

Sam Allen of the Band Son Ship: Vulnerability that Leads to Connection

When Sam Allen of Son Ship began writing and singing about recovery from his porn addiction, he knew the songs would resonate with many who had the same struggle. What he didn’t realize is how his vulnerability and courage would be connection points with others whose struggles were quite different. Turns out brokenness can take many forms but the journey toward recovery is a well-worn path with many common intersections.

Son Ship is shining light into some of the darkest places using music, words, and surrendered hearts.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Sam recently. This unique band […]

Be an Ally to Your Kids | Ally Series Part 15

As an adult looking back on the images, experiences, and encounters that shaped your sexuality, does it seem like something was missing? As you became more aware of your sexuality, were you left to figure it out on your own? Did the lack of God-honoring information and the abundance of misinformation leave you vulnerable, without anyone to turn to? The majority of parents I speak with would say yes, yes, and yes.

Mo Isom recently released a book with an interesting title: Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot. Honest conversations about sex and sexuality […]

The Best Summer Reading For Your Teen | Ally Series Part 14

Today’s teens live in a hyper-sexualized world that most parents can’t fully comprehend. Even for teens who don’t watch porn or aren’t having sex, the air around them is super-charged with sexual imagery, drama, and messaging that falls far outside of God-honoring sexuality. Many teens today are internalizing a destructive, toxic view of sexuality and most parents are oblivious.

If you could see the airwaves streaming over Netflix, cable television, internet routers, and free wi-fi, I believe you’d be shocked at the amount of sex, sexual situations, and various forms of sexual ideology they contain. Add to that all that is […]

Teaching Biblical Sexuality to Kids | Book Review | Ally Series Part 13

If you’re a mom or a dad, have you ever considered how much information you’ll share with your kids over the eighteen or so years you have to parent them? Of the thousands of things you’ll teach them and model for them, a healthy view of sexuality is by far one of the most important. It’s both your privilege and your responsibility, but often parents struggle with knowing how or when to approach topics related to bodies, porn, and sex. For Christians, it can be challenging as our children are regularly exposed to various aspects of sexuality that do not […]

God Made All of Me: A Book to Help Children Protect Their Bodies | Book Review | Ally Series Part 12

Becoming an ally to your child in a sexualized culture is one of the most important jobs you have as a parent, and it’s not that difficult. Through our Ally Series we’ve shared some of our best information to equip you. Today and over the next few weeks we’ll introduce you to some of our favorite resources to help you.

I can gravitate toward “paralysis by analysis,” that is, overthinking or doubting my preparedness. If this is how you lean, recognize that while preparedness is good, the reality is that today’s children are already immersed in a culture that is quite […]

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